Happy Couples Secrets: 12 Ways To Stay Healthy And Happy In Your Relationship
Happiness is the soul of healthy relationships. It is always important to ensure that your chosen life partner is happy with you in order to enjoy happy moments with him/her. Though, it is difficult to maintain happiness and satisfaction in your life throughout, but once you know the key to it, you will find your lost treasure that every human has sought since the start of life on earth. There are some golden rules to observe in order to bring pleasure and satisfaction in your love life and here are some of them:
- Talking Honestly and Openly
You may have faked some accent or feelings with your friend that you met today morning but do not think of doing that with your life partner. You have a beautiful relationship which may last for half a century. You have be very cautious and choose the right way of talking and dealing with your better half in a way that is honest and open. A style that depicts the real you and nothing is faked. What is real stays in the mind and heart and what is fake melts in thin air. Even if you are feeling let down, do not fake anything including the excitement or pleasures in your relationship.
- Share Your Feelings
Your life partner feels great when you share your true feelings with them. They feel connected with you when you share your feeling’s and if they truly love you they want to know more of you. Even sharing your work details or day to day experience’s is great. If you are going through a difficult phase make them a part of it for better bond and support.
- Confidently Disagree But Be Polite And Logical
Disagreeing is part of any discussion or relation but what you need is confidence and a positive approach. Disagree only when you are sure it’s the right thing to do. When you disagree, stay positive and avoid yelling or resorting to violence. Continue your discussions politely and do not withdraw or you will leave tension and uneasiness in your relationship. Chances of you winning your partner’s agreement with your point are high only when you are able to stay calm and positive. Hear them out too and that’s crucial and give valid logical reasons to refute them if you disagree.
- Stay Connected With Your Everyday Details That Need’s Their Attention
There are a lot of matters in your life that are important to you both such as work, business, kids, home, grocery and many more. All of them need your attention. Maintain a good connection regarding these with your life partner and share the day to day updates. Your connection with your life partner shows how much you care about them and like to stay connected with them. This pays you back in the form of a stronger and healthier relationship.
- Increase Fun in Your Personal Life
Do not let your personal life and relation with your life partner become boring or monotonous. Both of you are going to lose interest in one another if you are not going to bring some fun change in your style of spending time together. Try spending a night at the beach on a full moon night. Dine in a different restaurant on the weekend and not at the same eatery that you always love to eat. Remember the first day when you met your life partner and gift him/her a small lovely gift in the memory of that day. Choose his/her favorite color miniature ornate and place it on his/her side table with a little note. Now aren’t these some sweet gestures and i am sure your partners will love them and you both will love doing them together.
- Keep Sex Fun and Enjoyable
Sex in a relationship plays a vital role. If there is a slight hint of any decline in your sexual desire, do not ignore it but seek medical help as well as analyzing your own temper and choices. Ask your life partner what they feel and what they would love to improve or change. There are always different ways to improve your style and make sex more interesting. A candle-lit-room is very sexy for some couples. If you happen to be one of them then arrange them in your room for some special nights like weekends. Red color has amazing effects on your moods. Keep red cushions, flowers, carpet or curtains in your bedroom. There are many other exciting changes that you can bring about to your sex life according to your personal choice.Think of them and get creative!
- Always Hear Your Partner First
We often talk too much and listen too little. In any discussion or argument always listen to your partner and their opinions. Everybody needs someone to share what they are going through. Hearing them out is crucial. Simple hug or a nod when they speak are great gestures. If they ask for your opinion let them know that they understand how it sucks.
- Go On Vacations Together
A couple can stay energized, happy and healthy in a relationship by taking short vacations alone or with their friends. Vacations are refreshing and offer the couple much needed get away from their usual boring or stress filled routines. They can be very adventurous and empowering. This helps the couple to have several great memories and also share a great bond.
- Always Eat Together
As the Old Saying “Families that eat together, stay together”. when couple and their families eats together they stay connected and also receive nourishment both physical and spiritual. It’s also serves as a great space for conversations and laughter’s.
- Never Go To Bed Angry
Night time is never good for arguments. If you both have an argument in the evening its best to stay clam and agree to discuss the matter the following day. Having enough sleep at night makes things much clearer and sense in the morning.
- Laugh Together
Laughing is a great way to stay healthy since it boosts your immune system and releases endorphin’s. So it’s important that you both practice to smile and laugh with each other no matter how hard the day is, will only make you both happier and healthier.
- Be Respectful Towards Each Other
Every human being should be treated with respect and so does your partner. Always remember to give them their space and support.
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