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Are you always concerned as to where your relationship stands with your boyfriend ? You both have been dating for a long time now and yet it’s difficult for you to understand what exactly your guy is getting at. Is your relationship heading towards the next level ?

1. How he introduces you to others

If he proudly introduces you to his friends as girlfriend then it means he has made you an integral part of his life. Men are hesitant to commit so if he introduces you as his girlfriend means he is comfortable about his friends knowing about your role in his life. Friends opinions mean a lot to them and hence its a great milestone for your relationship. It’s even better if he introduces you as his girlfriend to his parents or cousins, the chances of moving to the next level are even higher.

2. You both have a big fight and yet makeup

Nasty fights with abuses and serious allegations can damage a person a lot. Fights among couples are very common, however if the couple makes up in spite of all the damage shows that they are committed to resolve issues together and continue. Even leading psychologists agree that “No matter how nasty the abuses or allegations are if the couple can always resolve and compromise then they get comfortable with each other under any circumstance and a sense of stability sets in”. A sense of permanency is a great insight that your relationship will continue to grow.

3. Do you hate something he loves… and you spill it out

If you have been pretending of liking something your boyfriend is too much into and one fine day you lose it and yell at him showing your hate about it and how you it was a pain to keep the fake charade for long just because you valued his sentiments but can’t take it any long. The guy in turn will spill out all the things he hates about the things you love doing. Now this is a real test in the relationship which shows how willing you both are to accept the other with all the indifference’s. Can you live with their choices ? If both of you can then your relationship is for keeps.

4. Guy wants to be with you at difficult times

If you are that one person your guy truly wants to be with in a difficult time then he is ready to commit. It is a great indicator that he is emotionally secure with you. Emotional security can be be shown by either of you. Even simple hugging or holding hands is a great gesture. This shows that your relationship is now emotionally mature to handle the situation together.

 5. He invites you over to meet his family

You both may have been in a relationship for a long time and have a lot of wonderful memories together however when you look back its also vital to realize if the guy has invited you over to his place to meet his family. If he did then its a milestone in your relationship. He is quiet serious about you and wants his family to be aware of your importance in his life. It also means you are that special person he wants to let you into his world. He wants you to know about his family, traditions and their lifestyle.

6. Are you both attending functions together ?

If a guy is serious about you then he will accompany you to various functions with his/your friends making your relationship public. If you both attend a friend’s wedding ceremony, that’s another good indicator since watching the wedding vows together brings you both closer and invokes the mans thinking to take your relationship to next level. Not attending functions together is not a good sign as the guy may not be sure about your relationship and doesn’t want to commit.

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